Learning a new language doesn’t have to be a chore for either of you.
If you’ve ever found yourself saying “Come on, just 10 more minutes of Spanish!” while your tween rolls their eyes, you’re not alone. Motivating a middle schooler to stick with a language like Spanish can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when they’re brand new to it. You want them to stay committed, but you don’t want to become the family drill sergeant.
Here’s the good news: you can absolutely help your child stay motivated to learn Spanish without constant reminders or battles over screen time. With the right strategies, Spanish can become a fun, engaging part of their week, which they take ownership of.
Let’s look at why this matters and how to make it happen.
Why Motivation Matters More Than Ever
Middle school is a critical stage for developing self-driven learning habits. According to a report by Developmental Psychology, students who felt “internal motivation” were more likely to stick with extracurricular academic programs than those who felt external pressure.
That means the more we can help our kids want to learn Spanish, the more likely they are to actually do it and stick with it long enough to earn high school credit.
Here are seven real-world strategies that help boost motivation.
1. Let Them Pick the Pace (Within Reason)
Give your child some control over their schedule. Maybe they prefer Spanish in the morning before school, or maybe afternoons feel more relaxed. When tweens feel like they have a say, they’re more likely to show up willingly.
Pro tip: Use a visual calendar or app where they can see their progress week by week.
2. Pair Spanish With Something They Already Love
If your child loves music, introduce them to catchy beginner-friendly Spanish songs. If they’re into gaming, try language-learning platforms like Spanish-Games.net that feel like play. Even watching cartoons or baking tutorials in Spanish on YouTube can feel fun and purposeful.
The key is connecting Spanish to their existing interests so it doesn’t feel like “another subject.”
3. Celebrate Small Wins
Instead of waiting for report cards or finished units, celebrate the small stuff. Did they correctly use “me gusta” in a sentence? Did they finally roll their r’s? Mark the moment!
You don’t need a trophy, just a moment of praise and recognition. These little wins build momentum and confidence.
4. Use Paired Learning to Boost Engagement
Kids are more likely to stay motivated when they’re not doing it alone. If your child is in a 2-on-1 class, like those offered by Homeschool Spanish Academy, they benefit from both teacher interaction and peer support. A classmate can turn into a friendly accountability buddy; someone who shares the same goals and milestones.
Bonus? It makes language practice more social and less awkward.
5. Give Them a Reason Beyond “Because You Have To”
Tweens are in the age of “Why does this matter?” It helps to connect Spanish to real-world benefits they care about. That could be:
- Traveling to a Spanish-speaking country
- Understanding song lyrics
- Getting ahead in high school
- Talking with extended family or community members
Framing Spanish as a life skill instead of a school requirement helps it feel relevant and rewarding.
6. Show—Don’t Just Tell—That You Value It
Even if you don’t speak Spanish yourself, you can model curiosity. Try learning a few words alongside them. Label things around the house in Spanish. Ask them to teach you a new word they learned this week.
When kids see that you care, it reinforces that this is worth doing, without a lecture.
7. Make Room for Fun
Let go of perfection. Learning a language means making mistakes, laughing at silly phrases, and sometimes forgetting a word mid-sentence. That’s part of the process.
Create a safe, fun space where Spanish isn’t about getting an A; it’s about growth, discovery, and eventually, confidence.
You’re Not Alone in This
Helping your middle schooler stay motivated to learn Spanish doesn’t mean forcing them through a workbook or begging them to practice flashcards. It means finding ways to make the experience engaging, personal, and purpose-driven.
And when Spanish starts to click? You’ll see them light up with confidence; not just in a new language, but in themselves.
If you’re looking for a beginner-friendly program that supports this kind of motivation, check out Homeschool Spanish Academy. Our native-speaking teachers work with middle schoolers in 2-on-1 classes that are fun, interactive, and credit-eligible. No prior Spanish needed.
Click here to book a free trial class and see the difference a personal, flexible approach can make.
Join one of the 40,000 classes that we teach each month and you can experience results like these
“It’s great being able to interact with native speaking people and having a conversation with them not just doing all the work on paper. It’s also an amazing opportunity to speak with native Spanish-speaking people without having to travel to a native Spanish-speaking country.”
– Melanie
“Getting to know wonderful teachers who care about me and my growth in language and education. Evelyn Gomez and Erick Cacao are two of the most extraordinary people I have ever met, and talking with them in Spanish at the beginning of classes is always so fulfilling and greatly contributes to my happiness, joy, and wellbeing.”
– Abby
“I love that my children have the opportunity to speak with a live person. They get to practice Spanish in a 1-1 setting while improve their speaking, writing and reading skills during their lessons. HSA is a great way to learn Spanish for all ages! My children are 6, 9 and 11. My oldest two (9 and 11) have been taking classes with HSA for almost 2 years now. They love seeing their teacher each week. They understand the importance of learning several languages. I’ve seen them grow and learn with HSA. I’m excited to see how they will improve the more classes they take. I highly recommend them. You can’t bet learning and speaking with a live teacher. I’ve tried other programs. It’s just not as motivating.”
– Karie Ann, Parent of 3
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